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Are there any fixed rules in the world of sugar dating? The truth is that there are many nuances and each sugar daddy varies in their preferences and tastes , and each sugar baby looks for totally different things . So how can we know if there are universal rules when you enter to look for a relationship of this type?
Over the years we have met and talked to many SBs and SDs, and despite the myths of sugar daddies , there are some common elements that will teach you how to be happy with your dates and how to make them love you as a sugar daddy or sugar baby. Things that help you swim among sharks or mermaids and master this way of life without letting it dominate you.
Go after what you want and don’t lose sight of it
Some sugar babies have clear objectives that fade or change. In other cases, they enter out of curiosity and do not know very well what they want or what they are looking for. Many people still think that destiny will lead them to meet the man/woman of their dreams, but sometimes you have to give it a little push. If we do not know exactly the type of relationship we are looking for, if we do not know what we want and can offer, in short, our objective, the most common thing is that we get lost among dates that lead nowhere.
You may be interested in reading about types of relationships in sugar dating to get a guide on what types of relationships you can look for. The important thing is to be very clear about where you want to go and what you want to find and not give up on your idea. To achieve this you must also know how to attract younger women.
The SBs who really get something are the ones who are willing to roll up their sleeves and get to work to find their ideal daddy, no matter how many bad apples or salt daddies get in the way. The SBs who really end up having a long-lasting and optimal relationship are the ones who know how to tell which SB fits their lifestyle without being swayed by looks or intimacy.
The best thing to do if you think the person in front of you doesn’t fit what you’re looking for is to move on and keep looking. This world is sometimes more of a race than a walk in the park. Read this article if you want to know how to reach an agreement with your POT.
It’s hard to get over a person who never gives upBabe Ruth
Have your own life
Being understanding about your potential sugar partner’s schedule and lifestyle is something that will help you improve your relationships . To be a sugar daddy without problems you have to understand that there are two different worlds that come together in sugar dating, a normally young girl and a mature man. Therefore, you have to understand that they are two different ways of life and that sometimes it can be difficult to get organized.
A big mistake some sugar buddies make is getting too involved in the relationship . They clear their schedule for their POT, let their needs and desires get in the way of their own, and neglect their goals. This lifestyle should not be incompatible with your obligations. You should not allow the security of constant help to distract you from your own life, you should take advantage of this help to enhance and improve your life goals, whether it is finishing your degree, moving up the career ladder, or starting a business.
The same thing happens to some people, they start to want to be with their new partner more and more, they get excited and put aside certain obligations. A sugar baby should be a motivation to continue improving in life, if you are losing meetings or business opportunities because of being with her, sooner rather than later she will surely leave just as she came.
Be willing to walk away
There is always the possibility of encountering toxic POTS, they can make you feel undervalued or make you think about things you don’t want to do. The worst thing you can do is continue in these situations and believe that there are no better options.
The best thing you can do is “get the dirt off your shoulder” emotionally. Recognize the emotional burden they can cause, block it, and move on. Even if you feel in dire need of help, remember that emotional damage can affect you for a long time and it is not worth healing a wound with a worse wound.
Of course, walking away is always easier if you are independent to begin with…
This rule also includes lonely SDs, here are the most typical mistakes that are usually made as a sugar daddy . If you see that he asks you for more and more, he doesn’t respect you and that you are entering a vicious circle, you must be willing to walk away no matter how stressed you are. This is something that must be clear: it is better to end a toxic relationship in time than to regret it later.
It is madness to hate all roses because one pricked you. To give up on all your dreams because one of them didn’t come true.The little prince
Maintain your independence
The world of sugar is full of paradoxes and the most useful of them is this: the most important thing for a sugar baby is to be independent.
Here’s why: Sugar sweetens things, but you can’t live on sugar alone. And if you live on help from your SD, you’re not independent. You’re completely dependent on your SugarDaddy for your most basic needs. And that puts you at a serious disadvantage.
Not only does it prevent you from being able to cut things off quickly if you need to, but it also means you’ll find yourself in a seriously compromising position if he decides to end things.
That’s why we encourage all sugar babies to save a safety fund of at least 3 months of living expenses in cash . If you want to know more about this topic you can read economic tips for sugar babies , it’s a very interesting post to organize your income.
This also includes the emotional independence that can be generated, no matter how much sugar, affection and company your SB can give you. You must have an emotional parachute to support you in case the relationship ends. Keep in mind that a young girl’s world can change a lot from one day to the next, an Erasmus, a change of address, etc. This means that in some cases the relationship can break down.
We always advise not to leave aside friends, family or people who can support us in difficult times. We know that it is difficult in many cases to combine work, family and leisure life, but if you find yourself in a farewell party with a girl you have grown fond of and affection for, these things help to cushion the blow.
We were made to believe that each of us is half an orange, and that life only makes sense when we find the other half. We were not told that we are born whole, that no one in life deserves to bear the responsibility of completing what we are missing.John Lennon
Don’t travel far
Sometimes, a promising POT will contact you from the other side of the universe. Or just from a different city. And ask if you’d be willing to visit him since he’s busy running companies and all that.
Some agree to do this… and find themselves in really compromising situations in cities they don’t know, have no friends or family and no money to get back home.
Don’t do this. Traveling to meet a POT isn’t always a bad idea, but it requires knowing more about the POT before you travel and being very clear that the POT can be trusted.
As an SD you should also not travel too far to meet a girl unless you already have full confidence. In some cases she may not show up, it may be a scam or something worse. There are girls with broken hearts out there who are looking to hurt you. You may end up with a bruised ego and sleeping alone in a hotel in a city you don’t know, and this is not a good experience.
Ghosts and Vampirinas
Every sugar baby knows at least one “Poof Daddy”: these are the ghosts who promise you the world and then leave the face of the universe. They tell you they have a lot, they will take you to the Caribbean, they will shower you with gifts. Dates go by and nothing progresses, they keep taking you out to eat at a crappy restaurant and they ask for more and more of your time. Then, when they have managed to entertain you enough or they see that you are starting to get suspicious, they disappear without a trace.
Where did he go? When will he contact me? Will he ever keep his promises?Quote from: A girl after meeting a Poof
Don’t waste your time trying to get back in touch and get him interested in you again. Let these guys go as soon as they disappear and when they come back, unless he has a very valid excuse i.e. he has been in a verifiable coma due to covid19, don’t waste your time on him because a sugar relationship works very well when both of you explain what you are going to offer, but what you offer must be real.
The less time you waste on those who aren’t going to give you what you want, the more time you have to pursue those who will. It’s also important to know the myths of the sugar dating world so as not to fall into stereotypes.
This rule also includes sucker babies. If you want to know what a sugar daddy is and want more information, you might be interested in reading the article: Sugar babies you should NOT meet .
