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First of all, try to create an eye-catching profile . First impressions are important and a good start. Most sugar dating agreements last around 6 months.
If you want your relationship to last and have long-term support, you have to keep your SD interested, so when you catch your POT you have to keep the sugar flowing. In this post we talked about how to keep interest, if you want some more general tips you can read this post: 10 ways to make your sugar daddy stay with you.
1. Keep him alert
Send him texts and pictures during times when he can be calm, a good morning or good night can be fine. Send him sugary messages like “I miss you” or “I can’t wait to see you again.”
Sending cute photos of yourself in your everyday life trying on new outfits or doing everyday things usually gives your SD a little extra sugar boost. This doesn’t mean sending a message every hour, try sending messages at times when you know he might be relaxed.
Getting a message while your SD is working or in a meeting is not a good idea. Try to be original in your messages, keep in mind that your SD has probably already received many messages of all kinds, try to be original without going overboard. To keep your SD’s interest, it is good to know what he or she likes, for example, if he or she likes skiing and in the afternoon you are going to El Corte Inglés, don’t hesitate to take a photo of yourself trying on a ski suit or trying out a snowboard.
They feel lucky to have young, beautiful women spending time with them. So, sending something original and in line with his tastes shows that you are interested in him. And the more attracted he is, the more willing he is to be generous with you.
2. Be mysterious
Having a life that revolves around your SD is not a good idea, busy businessmen often get overwhelmed by this. Try to be different from other sugar babies , so that he sees you as someone special and not just another one of his dates. The fact that your sugar daddy doesn’t know absolutely everything about your life will make him feel that little bit of concern that will keep him interested in you.
That’s why it’s better not to talk about what you do every day so you’ll have things to talk about when you go on a date. If you have continuous communication with someone, on this type of date, the relationship can quickly become boring. In this case, we are referring to dates that are at an intermediate point in the relationship. If you are in other stages of the sugar dating relationship, there are other ways to keep the fire of love alive.
3. Use your beauty
Take pride in your appearance and use it to keep him interested in you. Buy and wear lingerie that flatters your body. Try on sexy dresses, play with different outfits, and enjoy wearing sexy things. Men love it when you dress up for them exclusively.
Ask him what his dress fetishes are and try wearing those when he’s being nice to you. If you show your SD that you make an effort to dress well and look pretty for him, it will increase his interest in you. Sending him a picture of you in an outfit that matches his tastes from time to time can also rekindle his interest.
On the other hand, you can also ask him to buy you the kind of clothes he likes you to wear. It is possible that some things you wear do not match 100% with your style, but sometimes you have to wear the LBD (At the end of the article you have a button that takes you to the abbreviations if you want to know what LBD is).
4. Keep your goals and ambitions above your relationship
Sugar Daddies are successful men, they don’t want to be with a Sugar Baby who has no goals or ambitions. Your goals and ambitions are above the SD relationship. He needs to know that there is something more important and this will increase his interest in you . By keeping your goals at a higher point you are telling him “ take good care of me because there are more important things than you and you can lose me ”. Learn how to negotiate your advantages and how to reach agreements with your POT . When he knows that you are not 100% his, he will increase his interest in you and in treating you better.
Most SDs were college students. They can offer you valuable advice and guidance about your education and career path. And they can even help you find a business niche. You don’t have to tell him directly that he’s not vital to you, but being clear about it will be enough for him to notice and increase his interest in you.
5. Make him feel that you are not only in the relationship for the benefits it brings you
It is important to know and learn everything about the concept of a sugar daddy . Knowing his interests, his likes and dislikes, what he likes to eat, where he likes to shop, peculiarities, favorite movies, taste in music, etc. Part of any relationship is establishing a strong friendship.
At some point, it will no longer feel like a beneficial relationship, because you will have an established relationship and connection. Be interested in what he or she says and keep the conversations flowing. Do things together that you both enjoy, such as golfing, hiking, seeing shows, listening to live music.
Small gestures can also make your SD interested in you. A small gift at Christmas, birthdays or on important dates is never a bad idea. Sometimes men are careless with details, if you see that his wallet is worn or his travel bag is outdated, give him one. Making him feel that you care about him is something that can keep him interested in you.
6. Always be grateful.
Always be grateful to your sugar daddy, always be polite, remember to wear the LBD and keep it on until it becomes part of you. Some new sugar babies are not used to behaving with a certain etiquette, you can read about this in this article: Lessons and secrets from 5 experienced sugarbabes , in our blog you can find a lot of information, from how to behave on a first date with your SD, how to go on a trip with him or how to behave at a luxury dinner.
When you are at a restaurant, bar, etc. make sure to thank the staff for their services. Do the same with your SD. Even if it is the hundredth time he or she has invited you to dinner, smile and say thank you. Sugar Daddies like to feel like they are pampering you and that you notice their generosity. Every time you receive any benefit in your relationship make sure to let him or her know that you appreciate it and are grateful for it.
Remember that Sugar Daddies don’t have to take you out to fancy dinners, buy you gifts, or take you on trips. These men do it because they want to. Never feel entitled to anything because your sugar arrangement could end at any time.
7. Keep things exciting
Be active in everything that concerns the relationship, but don’t overdo it when you’re not with him. Learn, learn, and learn everything you need to rub shoulders with high-quality people. If your SD sees that you’re motivated to join a select group of people, he’ll also try to help you. You might also be interested in reading: Sugar baby protection: Tricks to detect false SDs.
