There are a lot of different types of men that you will meet in the SugarDaddy world, and within each type of SugarDaddy there is a world . When I look back on the last four years that I have spent in this world, I can limit it to six types of men that you will encounter in your search for the perfect SugarDaddy.
Oh, the dreaded conversation of “Where did you get that bag?” Or, better yet, “How did you pay for that bag?” In general, the sugar provided by SugarDaddys is not something you could normally afford to pay for yourself! Since I am a full-time Sugarbaby, you will often receive a series of routine questions. For some Sugarbaby, it may not be difficult at all to tell their families where everything comes from … but for others, telling their friends and family will be more complicated.
Telling your friends the truth is one thing, but your family is another, so I suggest you break the ice with your friends first. Regardless of how you choose to do it, there are some tips you should keep in mind:
Be selective with who you talk about:
You don’t have to tell everyone that you are a Sugar baby ; You really just need to tell those who are closest to you and who can ask you more questions or worry more. I would also suggest having a conversation with them and asking them to respect your decisions and privacy. It is possible that some people confuse Sugar babie with an escort so we write the post 5 differences between a sugar baby and an escort so you can explain well what it is.
You don’t have to tell them everything either, but try not to lie.
If you start saying things like “My friend just bought me this gold necklace because we are very good friends” or “Yes, I found these Goodwill Christian Louboutinin a thrift store”, then your friends and family will want to meet your friends and start shopping with you :-). Generally the smartest thing is to say that you accompany men to high profile events and that everything is paid. For example, if I go to a VIP dinner with a man, he pays for clothes, shoes, accessories, etc., and that allows me to stay with them.
I tell them that 50% of things are from events and that the other 50% are gifts after the fact because we form a friendship and keep in touch. That is the easy part and it is something that is not a lie. What can be difficult to explain is the issue of money.
People closest to you will try to label you as an escort, but don’t judge them because they still don’t know where the money comes from. It is important that you explain that you have a long-term friendship and a bond. It is important to show that your SugarDaddys are mentors and this seems to be going well, people who help you reach your own goals, which is 100% true.
Do not punish yourself for your kind of life:
Sometimes people just won’t understand it, no matter how it sounds normal or you carry it normally. It is important to have a clear line between your Sugarbabby life and your personal life and the less you intertwine the two, the less trouble you will have. keep in mind that being a sugar baby is a lifestyle.
Beware of showing off
If your friends and family are not 100% aware, be careful. The problem is that there are few things that make talk more than envy . If you are in college it is best to go unnoticed on this topic.
For me, I am a full-time student and I have no other support than my Sugardaddies. It is not so much my parents that worries me if I post a picture of my new Macbook and the Hermes scarf on Facebook, it is other people who can give you problems. It is better to be discreet.
The lifestyle of a sugar baby is very similar to a double life but without the tensions of having to hide. However, going unnoticed and being one more is important.
For a few people that I have selected, I am a Sugar baby… but for the rest of the world I am an average university student, so I am proud to be. From time to time I can get to the unit in a car with my Sugar daddy, but most of the time, I arrive by public transport like everyone else.
If you are afraid of being judged, let humility speak for you.
Let them know that you are doing this for you. Don’t let them think that you are doing it for someone else or that you work for someone. It is important that they know that this is your personal decision and that you set the limits. By letting them know that you have control of what is happening, they may be more at peace with your decision to lead a Sugarbabby lifestyle.
Think about your safety.
One of the biggest problems you may have is that your friends and family care about your safety. This is completely understandable, so it is good to specify a couple of things:
- someone always knows my location in case something happens.
- I have a keyword or a certain emoji that I will send to several different people if I am in danger and they know they should call the police and send them to my location immediately.
This is very complicated to happen, it is normal for appointments to develop very well and with respect. However, having these keys will reassure people who care about you.
You should enjoy thriving and be happy with your kind of life.
Now I only have a SugarDaddy in Madrid after having dated several, and you could too. It’s easier to have your friends and family on board when you’re honest and when they’re not being bombarded with questions about you.