As you cross the trails of the world of sugar, you will notice the many types of sugar daddies there are , as many as men, of course. Some of them will be awesome, most will just be fine, and some just will falter and try to trick you. And worst of all, they will waste your time.
Well, in this post I will try to teach you how to differentiate these last false sugar daddy. Like all men, they also come in various shapes and sizes but luckily there are a few things they say that we can quickly identify them by.
In order to prevent you from wasting your time with these fakes, we have prepared a list of tips for you to be aware of the signs that will help you recognize a fake sugar daddy.
1. “Send me a photo of yourself sexy or naked, honey”
I will start with the most typical of all, the one that asks you to send him sexy photos of your body, or maybe even naked, with the excuse of being able to meet or see you better. Never send any photo of yourself to a profile of this style. Most sugar babies have received emails like this and the best thing you can do is ignore them: delete, block and report the user.
No legitimate and genuinely interested sugardaddy in a fair deal with a girl would ever ask him for nude or sexy photos without hardly speaking to her. Most likely, this type of profile hides behind a teenager looking for sexy and morbid photos for his collection: if he catches you on a fun or boring day you can hesitate for a while and laugh at him. I advise you, you may have a lot of fun and it comes in handy to deal with the frustration of finding those profiles.
2. “Before reaching an agreement, I have to test you first”
There is a possibility that you were chatting, casually, with a possible future sugar daddy. Maybe you’ve even had an encounter already, one or two dates, and things seem to be going well. But then, and once the economic issue is dropped on the table, and the allocation deal begins, the gentleman tells you the phrase at the top of this paragraph. Or some very similar.
You don’t have to be too smart to know what you’re talking about. It must be believed that it is in a dealership and you are a car. Get out of there ASAP: delete and block. It is very possible that an SD / SB agreement will not work once it has been made, but it is something that a true sugar daddy is willing to invest to find out. He will never ask you to try first.
3. He wants to pay for the meeting / night you spend together.
You will probably find this type, since it is also among the most typical. Those who don’t want an allowance-based deal, but hope they can “pay you per visit.” You will receive money when you see each other and, as expected, in those encounters he is only interested in one thing: having sex with you. These are seen in league.
They are not sugardaddys, they are Johns. And it happens to them that they are not looking for a sugarbaby, and they know it, but they are too stingy to hire a scort. They are in the wrong place and you should not continue talking with such a profile. We have nothing against scort – if you have come with that idea or you change the chip, or you are in the wrong place – but sugar babies are not scort.
Sugar relationships do not necessarily include sex , nor is it charged for hours, despite what many still think. Do not settle for this fake sugar daddy : you have the wrong place and what you are looking for here you will not find. Please delete it, block it and always report it so that you are expelled from the web.
4. He boasts money and is always bragging.
He tells you he has a yacht. Rolex watches? Even your dog has one … Oh, and did he mention (324 times) how much money he makes per month? Up to date?
Men like this are the clear example that all that glitters is not gold. They hope to attract sugarbabe with the promise of the fortunes they possess. And, although he really is as rich or richer than King Midas, that does not mean that he needs to be sharing it with you from time to time. Sugar dadys tend to be rather discreet about that topic.
Many sugar babies for the first time make the mistake of thinking that the richest are the best sugardaddys. In the vast majority of cases that is not true. The best sugar daddies are the ones who take care of you and really take care of you. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t matter how bright it is. It is false gold, from the bad, that blackens …
5. He has a crappy personality and is unbearable.
Rude, rude, and sometimes even vulgar. Bad men do not keep good company and they certainly are not good sugar daddy. If a potential sugardaddy is rude or mean to you at any point, quickly cut off any relationship and contact with him. Even if it is very rich, it keeps you more than comfortable, it will never be worth the emotional damage that being with such a person can make you go through.
The best SugarDaddys are first and foremost good people, or at least people who try to be nice to each other. You know, adult men who understand things like consideration, reflection, and courtesy. Don’t make the mistake of getting involved with men who don’t see the value of those traits. All the sugar you receive from them will be more bitter than sweet.
6. The bargain hunter, as if they were sales.
This type of sugardaddy will try to haggle you, oh, more than 50% less than what you are surely looking for. And, unless he found you at rebajassugarbaby.es … why is he trying to haggle to such an extreme?
Well, simple: because it’s a fake, that’s why . When it comes to such personal things like finding the perfect sugar babe for them, sugardaddy really knows that this is not a store, nor you a product. And they certainly don’t haggle. If you are what he is looking for and you have been realistic about your assignment expectations, he will be willing to do his part to make sure you are both happy with the arrangement.
* NOTE: Some potential sugardaddy simply won’t be able to afford a very high allocation range, but they can be great sugar daddys too. If you like a possible sugardaddy, but you are outside its price range, you can always adjust the amount of time you would be with it, and put more limits on your availability, so you can reach a satisfactory agreement for both of you.
7. He thinks he is doing you a great favor.
We have said it before and will repeat it again: an assignment is not a blank check for him . Of course he’s giving you money. But it is true that he does not do it just because of the great goodness that exists in his heart: he is receiving a lot in return too. Experienced babys know how to maintain a good SD / SB ratio. You are there for him when he needs you, you listen to him and support him about his possible problems at work … You do your best to relax and forget about problems, you make him feel unique and on top of the world.
This is not a service that can be easily given, and it is also true that good sugarbabys are made from a different paste than other women. So while you should be grateful for the help your sugardady gives you, never forget that the favor goes both ways. If he is not able to recognize this point, it is best that you pass him.
8. The egocentric type and everything is: about me, me, me, me … and then me again.
You will quickly discover that there are very special types of sugar daddys: those who have the impression that the sun, moon and stars always revolve around him. The theme of the conversation in the appetizers: the story of himself. We move on to the main course and the theme to his best moments in life, until now, of course, because he has a lot to see and do … And while you eat dessert, he explains his visionary ideas and each tactic or method, present, past or future, to make all your dreams come true.
You will realize that it has the ability to be able to speak and chew at the same time, and it does not give you time or to articulate half a word to be able to escape from so much navelism. This is a very important lesson: be careful with sugardadys who are only interested in themselves. After all, when could you discuss things you might need in a deal, when it is clear that he is only interested in himself?
9. Extra tips
– Try to show some type of control or very jealous without having reached any type of agreement. Flees. You don’t want a sugardaddy created by your owner.
– Try to give you a really bad deal , like a few hundred for spending a few days together. I assure you that you will feel better working at Starbucks, and you have free coffee.
– He talks a lot about promises and keeps asking to stay with you, but when it comes to reaching a real agreement, he keeps quiet and returns to the loop . It’s quiet, but it will waste your time.
– Be careful with those who easily accept everything you ask for and always agree. Remember: it is not your sugardaddy until you have got what you asked for.
– And as always, if you have a strange feeling, or something gives you a bad feeling about a potential sugardaddy, follow your instinct and run away .
– Fake sugardaddy’s are harmless once you know how to spot them from scratch. But, if you don’t, you may end up wasting time and energy on something that will lead to nothing.
As an intelligent sugarbabe that you are, you are already alert always to that signal that indicates the intentions of any sugardaddy that talks to you. If you have any clues that have helped you to identify a sugardaddy fake, I encourage you to share it in the comments area or in the forum. Those who are starting to help them know perfectly how to behave with those types of profiles.