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Depending on your personal situation, you may need to be more discreet when having relationships in the world of sugar dating. Many Sugar Daddy Spain profiles prefer to keep their relationships secret, especially at the beginning.
In this article we want to teach you some tips on discretion so that you can focus on fully enjoying everything your relationship has to offer, without compromising privacy.
Managing communication well
It is important to keep communication with your Sugar Daddy/Baby private. There are many alternatives and programs for communication that can serve this purpose. All your interactions should be in a single app, and the app should be in a folder on your phone if possible . This way we can keep our conversations in a safe place in case someone decides to check the phone.
It is better to use an app that can delete the images, since we do not know at the beginning of the relationship who may be on the other end, so it is important that if there is an exchange of photos, the images are deleted after viewing.
If you are going to receive calls and video calls, it is also better to use an alternative messaging app that does not leave a trace of the call on the phone. Likewise, it is better to avoid video calls at first and try to do so when you have gained more confidence.
If you want to have extra privacy, it’s better to have important conversations face to face and only use text messages for dates. At first, you’ll both want to know a lot about each other, but it’s better not to give too much information, since in person it’s better to know what you can tell about yourself and that it’s better to keep to yourself for the moment. On the other hand, establishing rules and schedules for calls and messages can help you organize your private life and your life on the sugar dating site without stress or calls at the wrong time.
Some apps that greatly improve discretion and privacy in communications are:
- Telegram
- Signal
- Live
- Silence
You may be interested in reading: Essential apps for sugar babies and sugar daddies
Have a credible story ready
When dates become more frequent, it is possible that at some point one of the parties may meet someone they already know and stop to say hello. You have to invent a good story between the two of you to avoid any awkward encounters and to be able to get away with it if someone who knows you stops to say hello. Especially at the beginning of the relationship, it is possible that on dates there may be discomfort because someone might see the couple, thanks to this the dates will be much calmer.
Later on, if you reach a different level of commitment, there will be no need to hide, as sugar dating is a normal thing in society. In small towns, it is possible to have mutual acquaintances, so the story must be credible and in line with each other’s real situation. If you are dating a businessman, do not pretend that he is your private piano teacher and that you are having a drink with him, it may be better to say that you are working on a project with him related to his company.
Having a story prepared is a basic thing, but this doesn’t mean that you should start living a lie . If you meet someone who is very close or who you see very often and they keep insisting on knowing more, try to change the subject. On the other hand, at some point it is possible that the relationship could go further, so if you get to that point it may be advisable to introduce your sugar as your partner or even consider a formal relationship.
There are many couples in sugar dating who have reached marriage, so although it is better to avoid it at first if you have been dating for a while, it is better to normalize it. We live in a modern society where this type of relationship is no longer a scandal, although you should always be discreet about it.
Select your meeting places carefully
Ideally , the best meeting locations for sugar dating relationships are those that are far away from where your inner circle and colleagues hang out. This greatly reduces the chance of running into someone you know while making dates more enjoyable. Depending on where you live and how much time you have to travel, try meeting in a nearby city or town where no one knows you. Another alternative is to go to booths at restaurants or show boxes where there is more privacy.
Dates at your house or yours should be ruled out at the beginning to avoid bad experiences. As we already know, sugar dating is not a pay-per-night or transactional relationship, so dates in hotels should not be considered for the first dates either. Remember that you should always have someone you trust completely who knows where you are at all times, especially at the beginning, regardless of whether you are a sugar daddy or a sugar baby, it is something that will make you live the experience more calmly.
Handle the advantages of the relationship wisely
Many sugar babies who are starting to have a more comfortable financial situation start to attract a lot of attention. They also start to brag about the weekend they are going to spend in Rome with a friend or about their new handbag. It is also important to be discreet about the advantages that the new relationship offers you, people talk and normally envy speaks louder. One of the ways to manage income as a sugar baby is to use bizum when you need help so you won’t carry a lot of cash on you, which usually attracts a lot of attention. Gift cards, prepaid debit cards and PayPal when there is more trust are also a great alternative.
Depending on what your arrangement entails, gift cards can be a great alternative as they can cover clothing or makeup whims, but also food and basic necessities. For example, the El Corte Inglés gift card can be used for both clothing and Hipercor supermarkets. Prepaid debit cards have similar benefits, a sugar daddy can top up a card for his sugar baby to use as needed and it can be used anywhere. In short, it is much more discreet to carry a card than a pile of cash.
Mutual respect implies discretion and reserve even in tenderness, and the care to safeguard as much freedom as possible of those with whom one lives.HENRI-FREDERIC AMIEL
