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Many sugar daddies may want to take you out to dinner at a nice restaurant. These are the dates where you can see something beyond a nice body at short distances.
Intelligence, good manners and the ability to have an interesting conversation with a sugar baby are some of the aspects that make the difference. SDs know that economic advantages are not everything in these relationships. If we want to be successful, our main task must be to make our sugar daddy happy .
She must be happy, relaxed, proud, pampered, cared for, and envied. We must not forget the following tips to achieve our goal. Ready? Take note!
Let’s start with some sugar baby tips for a dinner with your sugar daddy. We already know that you have to eat with your mouth closed, right? Now you will know some details that a girl should know if she wants to start developing in society:
At the table with your sugar daddy:
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The water glass will always go on the far left, the wide, round glasses (the largest ones are for red wine, the U-shaped ones for white wines and the long, narrow ones for sparkling wines. The round, short-stemmed glasses are for cognac and brandy. It is important to know that when we drink from a glass we should always drink from the same side.
The cutlery is simple, with a small fish fork and a fish knife.
It’s interesting to know that a real sugar daddy will usually know if he’s in front of a polite girl if you know the differences between each glass. By the way, never clink glasses in a toast, good glasses are delicate and in luxury restaurants unnecessary noise is not very welcome.
Never lift the menu from the table:
Lifting the menu from the table is another slightly “ugly” detail. The correct thing to do is to read the menu without lifting it from the table and to open it delicately, not to put your finger to point at a dish, even if you have a question you should ask without pointing at the menu. Touching the menu too much is in bad taste.
Bon appetit? NO Thanks
“Buen provecho” is a very accepted expression, it is like wishing someone a good digestion. Although in some ways it can be welcomed in other contexts, instead it is better to say “que lo disfrutas” or “disfruta”.
Romantic dinner with your sugar daddy
Etiquette is “knowing”, you can buy any etiquette book and you will be surprised by everything that is behind each event, but knowing is not knowing and one of the most difficult tasks of a sugar baby is to maintain an interesting conversation with her sugar daddy.
Taking care of the details of a conversation is an art, but don’t worry, you have to be yourself if you try to be something you’re not, it will be noticed, and, after all, if you’re there it’s because she likes you. Below, we show you some tips that can help you in the conversation at the restaurant.
Show interest
If you are not interested in your sugar daddy, you should not be there. In other words, if you do not find him an interesting man, it is difficult to reach a long-term agreement. The best way to know if your POT is interesting to you is to talk to him first through the social network or a messaging app.
As a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby, you may have to scroll through a lot of profiles and while no one likes to do that, only by doing so can you be closer to finding your perfect match who will give you the pampering you need. Some girls think that finding an arrangement is a quick thing, some get lucky, but it is not a quick thing.
The profile and the conversations through messaging will help you to be “openers” of the conversation, especially at the beginning, once you connect the conversation will flow. As we have said before, no interrogations, third degrees are not good.
Create a balance in your conversation, so that you cover important topics related to your topics without questioning yourself too much.
Have fun
Composure at dinner is crucial, but that shouldn’t stop you from having fun. In fact, having fun should be at the top of your list. Have conversations in a light and playful environment. Don’t discuss topics that fall into the serious category on the first date with your sugar daddy.
As much as an SD likes to have intellectual conversations with women, you should leave topics like politics for another time. Keeping the nature of the conversation light and fun will eventually make both of you have fun and connect better. If you have doubts here you can read the post: Things you should not say on your first date.
Face the nerves
Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies often experience nerves at first dinners. When you eat with someone, there are many details that show us what we are like. They feel the pressure of impressing a girl who is much younger than them. They want to come across as interesting and polite.
Getting dressed for dinner
Each place has its protocol and rules, so it is important to always dress appropriately, don’t forget your LBD*. Also, you should pay close attention to your POT’s way of dressing. A man who travels on a motorcycle is not the same as one who travels in a Mercedes or a Jaguar. Each person dresses in different styles, if you like your sugar daddy’s clothes, try to match them.
Make-up, on the other hand, should always be discreet, bold and elegant. Never wear too much make-up, and only wear red or brightly coloured lips on special occasions. Never wear jeans, and don’t even think of wearing tracksuits or ripped jeans to dinner, no matter how fashionable they are.
The mobile phone on the table does not
Try not to put your phone on the table. Even if it’s hard, keep in mind that a POT is making space for you in their life. So it’s best if you show full interest in that time and their conversations. Never check your social networks or start sending text messages or WhatsApp. If you do, this will reflect very badly on you.
Always be thankful
The current situations we are experiencing have made us very insensitive and consequently very ungrateful. It is really important that you appreciate everything your sugar daddy gives you. Always show him how flattered you feel by what he does for you, appreciate and admire every detail, every gift and every attention he offers you.
Show him how happy you are to receive gifts, no matter how small they are, and use everything he gives you whenever you see him. This will make him feel great and happy to be with the girl he has chosen to spend his best moments with.
On the other hand, it is important to know and understand your sugar daddy’s emotional state when he is with you . This is the way you will be able to understand what is happening at that moment. Remember that each relationship is different from each other, and people feel good about their emotional state when their partners are understanding.
Discretion and respect, above all
One of the qualities of a sugar baby is her attitude. Discretion is one of the most important characteristics within the protocol of behavior. In addition, it is essential not to ask too many questions, mature men tend to be very interesting in all aspects, but they often feel uncomfortable with so many questions.
Just learn to listen to what he wants to tell you and don’t ask personal questions that might make him uncomfortable. You should also avoid touching on sensitive topics in conversations, such as talking about emotions, family, health-related situations, and more. Think about what you are going to say before you do it, so as not to fall into forbidden topics.
FAQs on behavior at luxury dinners
Knowing the basic rules of etiquette, such as the correct use of cutlery and glasses, reflects education and sophistication, qualities highly valued by sugar daddies. It also shows that you are a person who knows how to handle yourself in formal situations.
It’s best to avoid sensitive topics like politics, religion, family issues, or health issues. Instead, keep conversations light, fun, and interesting, which build connection without creating tension. If a sensitive topic comes up, gently redirect the conversation to something lighter or more fun. For example, you can ask about their interests or travel experiences.
You should choose an elegant outfit, such as a classic dress and comfortable but elegant shoes (LBD, little black dress), avoiding casual clothes such as jeans or ripped trousers. Make-up should be discreet and sophisticated, with intense lip colours only on special occasions.
Placing your phone on the table or using it while you are together can seem disinterested and disrespectful. A sugar daddy appreciates that you pay full attention to the conversation and the time spent together. This applies to all meetings in general; having your phone on the table is considered rude.
Have fun while maintaining your composure. Be spontaneous and playful in conversations, but without losing your sense of elegance and etiquette. This balance will make the experience enjoyable for both of you. Avoid drinking more than two glasses of wine.
Research his interests and use previous messages to get to know him better. This will give you a clear idea of common topics and help you start a fluid and natural conversation during dinner. Prepare some interesting conversation topics in case there is an awkward silence.
