It’s normal for a first date to start with a bit of frustration when you haven’t had a sugar daddy before who has filled your wardrobe a bit. Having the right clothes for certain engagements when we’re still in college is no easy task.
Are you supposed to wear designer clothes for first dates? Far from it. Are you supposed to go like a job interview for a night waitress? Hmm, that’s not the idea either.
Without a doubt, the best outfit to wear on a first date is something you feel comfortable in and that also matches the style you’ve seen your POT wearing in their photos. Below, we show you 3 things you should know about what to wear on a first date with your POT:
1-. Your sugar daddy’s style of dress
Each SD has a different style of dress, from the most classic to the most daring. It is very normal for them to dress very casually with jeans and a t-shirt or polo shirt. In the case of a casual man, he will like a more sporty style and appearance. In general, if he dresses more classic, he will like you to dress more classic. Simple, right? Yes, but as long as you feel comfortable with what you wear… It is not about dressing up.
Obviously it’s a first date, you may have seen photos of him on vacation and he may just be in the work season. Well, don’t worry, you can tell a man’s clothing style just by considering his lifestyle and personality. Does he work in an office? Is he a straight-laced person or a more relaxed person? What kind of music does he like? Think about everything you talked about before the first date and you’ll know more or less how you can fit in on the first date .
For example, if he works in a “suit” profession like banking and finance or corporate law, a casual chic outfit for you may be the most complementary. But also pay attention to his preferences and what he aspires to; for example, if he is a “suit man” with a creative side that he doesn’t have enough time to explore, he will be more intrigued by a sugar baby with a novel and edgy look than the typical business casual women he sees every day.
There are two types of executives on sugar dating dates, those who feel comfortable in their suits and those who are eager to take them off. This is important because if you wear a suit with one of those who are eager to take it off, we are off to a bad start.
Another thing to consider is his personality. Look for clues about what he likes most about himself and how he wants the world to see him. Is it sophistication that makes him feel good? Innocence? Eccentricities? You can usually gauge what qualities your POT finds attractive to know what his style is. Consider this when choosing his outfit for the first date.
2-. Your own style of dressing
Okay, now that you have an idea of what your SD might like, it’s time to consider what types of clothing you’re comfortable in . This is important not only for the first date, but it can even be important in determining whether you’ll be a good sugar baby and end up being liked by your POT.
For example, you may meet the typical snob who you don’t quite know where he’s going to go with his way of dressing. Maybe teasing him a little by saying that you make your own clothes or that your favorite outfit is baggy pants will give you an idea of what he likes.
There are men who can tell if your eyeliner isn’t exactly the same shade as your shirt, or who can give you dirty looks for not having your eyebrows done. Others won’t even notice the color of your jacket. A secret: The former, although more demanding, tend to take you shopping more often.
Take your time to determine if his tastes in clothing match your personality. There are always clothes that are better suited for a first date, and having your tastes and his on the same page can be a great way to start.
The place
Something very important to consider before the first date is the place. To know how to dress depending on the date place, we have a dress code guide for sugar babies. A first date can be very different and varied depending on the place where we meet. Obviously, if you meet in a bar or place near a park where you can go for a walk, showing up in shiny heels is not the best idea.
On the other hand, if he wants to take you out to dinner at the Grand Casino in his city or to a trendy restaurant, showing up in Converse is not very appropriate either. Generally, you should always try to stand out in a healthy way on any date, but without bordering on the extravagant. Keep in mind that sugar daddies usually pay a lot of attention to details.
If you’re meeting for an event you don’t have much experience with (a fundraising dinner, a Moroccan restaurant), it’s helpful to ask friends who’ve been to similar events for advice or simply search for images on Google to get an idea. Another idea is to simply ask your sugar daddy what he’d like you to wear. 😊
